[Six months ago today, Sandy hit Long Island. Two weeks of no power, no heat and being displaced left me a little worse for wear. But I didn’t have as bad as others. What follows is a piece that was published in The Magazine shortly after Sandy, after Leah (ohheygreat) and myself took on a project that was kind of all consuming but worth it. I post it here because The Magazine is subscription only, but they are kind enough to let us repost our stuff after a while]
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“Do you realize how close it is to Christmas?” my friend Leah Reich text messaged from California.
I didn’t. I was too preoccupied being cold and miserable in my parents’ house, where my immediate family and I were staying after losing power at our own home during the first few hours of Superstorm Sandy. Eleven of us across three families had already been hunkered down there for a week and a half when a snowstorm hit, causing my parents to lose power too. Heat, hot showers, and normalcy would have to wait.
Leah’s message snapped me out of the funk I was in. I was feeling helpless to contribute meaningfully to those around me who were worse off. Neither my house nor my parents’ had suffered much damage, and none of us had been injured. I wanted to go out and do something for those who had been hit harder, but I didn’t have enough gas in my car to get anywhere, let alone to wait on the hours-long gas lines.
Meanwhile Leah, a coast away in Oakland, was trying to lend Sandy victims a helping hand by arranging a blood drive. Her efforts sputtered through logistical problems beyond her control. We were both looking for a way to help, and the nearness of Christmas gave us a focus.
Our goal became instantly clear with her text: We could leverage our Internet savvy to make the holidays a little less traumatic for children whose lives had been disrupted by Hurricane Sandy.
Sacks for Sandy, a toy drive for dispossessed kids, was born.
“When I saw what Occupy Sandy was doing with the Amazon registries, it occurred to me we could do something similar with toys and wish lists,” Leah recalls. “After all, what kid hasn’t made a wish list at the holidays?” We set up an Amazon wish list containing toys and games for all ages, in all price ranges, with the gifts coming to my house.
Because I had been only skimming the news with a spotty Internet connection post-Sandy, I had assumed that the aftermath was a local story and that no one was paying much attention to it. It turns out the world was watching. And they wanted to help. We found a way to let them assist.
About four years ago, Twitter put me on a “recommended user” list, and from that I gained a million followers. That’s down to about 915,000 now, which is still a staggering number of people potentially reading my timeline each day. My normal shtick is cracking jokes and ranting about sports, and Leah and I had become friends through that banter. My high number of followers has had little practical use in my life and career, aside from bragging rights, but now I finally had the opportunity to use my reach for good.
Leah and I turned to social media to jumpstart our efforts. We put feelers out on Twitter, Tumblr, and Facebook — just a hint that we were about to launch this fundraiser for the youngest of Sandy’s victims. The response was immediate and powerful, and it came from all over the world. The tweets about Sacks for Sandy went from chatter to outright buzz. We were retweeted by Internet luminaries and celebrities like Anil Dash and Neil Gaiman.
We eventually lost track of how many people were spreading the word about the toy drive, but I was reminded of the scale of participation by the new stack of Amazon boxes in my living room when I got home from work each day.
We once again turned to social media to create a persistent home for Sacks for Sandy. People quickly stepped up to help. Michael Owens of San Francisco volunteered to design the website for us. Hosting Matters gave us the domain sacksforsandy.com. Cori Johnson made illustrations for the site. My sister volunteered her time to help maintain the wish list, adding more toys and keeping count of what was bought so we could update the website regularly and tweet the progress of the drive.
Over 50 people volunteered to wrap the gifts. The Nassau County Firefighter’s Museum offered their space to host a wrapping party and to store the gifts, which led us to work with local fire departments to use their stations to distribute presents. With Skype and FaceTime, we were able to keep Leah front and center for all the action, even introducing her to volunteers during the wrapping sessions.
We then contacted Patch, an online-only hyperlocal news service with individual sites for hundreds of communities. When a reporter from my town’s Patch came to my house — now filled with toys, games, and books — Leah took part in the interview via Skype. The 3000 miles between us melted away.
By the end of our drive, we had collected 1043 gifts through Amazon and $1300 donated through PayPal, most of this from strangers or acquaintances who never gave a second thought to trusting two people they knew only from the Internet to do right by their donations. That’s particularly touching given the number of social-media scams for donations and sympathy.
We nearly hit a setback right at the end when an arsonist set fire to the Church of St. Luke and St. Matthew in Brooklyn, where Occupy Sandy was headquartered and stockpiling relief aid and where about 10 percent of Sacks for Sandy gifts had been wrapped and stored. The fire was put out rapidly enough that most supplies and all the toys avoided damage.
My parents eventually got their power back, and so did we. As our lives returned to normal, Leah and I became so grateful that we had taken the time to transform our frustration into something that made a meaningful contribution to lives around us. Social networks may be blamed for keeping people from making human contact, but even with Leah and I so many miles apart, we connected — and then spread that connection to thousands of others to bring a little light into darkened lives.
We made the East Meadow Patch’s list of Feel Good Stories of the Year.
Much thanks to all of you.
We had so many volunteers show up today to wrap gifts for Sacks for Sandy. Originally, I thought we would be there until tonight wrapping presents but so many people showed up and worked their asses off that we were done by 4pm.
Everything went so smoothly, you would think we had a plan of attack when we started. We didn’t. People just took over, saw what had to be done and did it. Some took charge, some eagerly waited to be told what to do, some did a little of everything. We had wrappers, labelers, tapers, cleaners and movers. We had old, young, Girl Scouts, family members, total strangers and even someone I went to high school with. Everyone worked together for a really good cause (and for some donuts and coffee, of course).
My favorite moment was walking Leah around using facetime so I could introduce her to everyone and let her see what was going on because if not for Leah, Sacks for Sandy would not have happened. Thank you for being so inspiring.
I’d like to thank the Nassau County Firefighter’s Museum for donating not just the space we used today, but for all the help they gave us in packing up, organizing and cleaning up, and for the smoke detectors they gave to everyone who volunteered today.
Today was a good day. I love when people make good things happen. Thank you to everyone who had a part in this.
The real payoff comes Monday when we hand the gifts off to the firemen who will distribute them to kids who have not had much to smile about since Sandy.
You did a good thing, everyone. I can’t thank you enough.
We have finalized the distribution part of the toy drive.
Thanks to our contact at the Long Island Patch, we were able to hook up with the Mayor of Lindenhurst, a hard hit town, who then hooked us up with the Lindenhurst fire department, who are doing a Santa run to the areas of their town most affected. We’ll be donating a portion of the toys for their Santa run.
That gave me the idea to ask my father, who is very involved with the volunteer fire services on Long Island, to help us out. As it turned out, he was meeting last night with chiefs from affected areas (he had a bunch of donated smoke detectors to give them). He spoke to them and we decided to donate to the fire departments from Massapequa, Lido Beach, Island Park and East Rockaway - areas that were devastated - to disperse to the children of their communities who lost their possessions during Sandy.
Also, the Nassau County Firefighters Museum has donated space to use for a wrapping party and they will also store the presents until the respective fire departments pick them up.
We have a Girl Scout troop as well as over a dozen local volunteers coming out to help us wrap.
This has totally been a group effort and it’s awesome that the very large group that is making this happen comes from all over the world.
We will keep you updated as more happens, and we will be putting photos up at the website.
Also, if you are local (south shore Long Island) and want to help wrap next Saturday, give me a shout.
Thank you so much from me and Leah.
This is a thing we are doing. Collecting holiday gifts for kids displace by Sandy or who have had their belongings destroyed in the storm.
There are a lot of details yet to be worked out. But we are starting to get the word out that we’re doing this and it’s never too early in a project to see who is interested in helping out either by donating gifts/money or helping us in organizational ways.
So this is a preliminary “let’s put this out there and see who is interested” thing.
[I’d prefer you reply to me at twitter if you can because I’m making a list there, but reply to Leah or me here, in email or ask boxes is fine, too]
Five years ago today I joined twitter (thank you bot for the reminder).
Last week, I flew three thousand miles across the country to have dinner with people I met on twitter and breakfast with people I met on Fark, but reunited with on twitter after most of us left Fark.
It’s not the first time I have flown somewhere to meet twitter people. It certainly won’t be the last.
I know I’ve said all this before, probably on July 3rd of last year when I was reminded of my twitter anniversary but I’m not going to look it up and copy and paste it because the feeling is still fresh, still relevant and worth repeating with fresh words: twitter has added incredible value to my life. Value in the form of friends, relationships and connectivity.
I have a lot more to say about it but I promised someone I would write something for their site about it so I’ll save all the non-emotional stuff for that.
But I will say this here and now: to all of you I met on twitter, thank you for the last five years. Not only for the laughs, but for the friendship. Some of you have found a permanent place in my heart and maybe some will find it hard to believe that a silly little social media site where I tell jokes about my period in 140 characters or less can produce such strong and lasting friendships but my heart and soul and world are better for having many of you in my life.
Thanks to Mike, Leah, Erika and Dianne for a wonderful night of dinner and pinball, and thanks to Matt and Steff (and Margaret, who is adorable!) for meeting Todd and I in a rather suspicious part of the Tenderloin for what was a really nice breakfast.
Thanks everyone, for five fun years. Here’s to good friends.
If anyone ever doubts the bonds and the kindness, empathy and generosity of this community, they need only to look at the Pledgie for Jeff’s cats and see that $1,000 was raised in less than half an hour.
That is more than money for shipping cats. That is an outpouring of sympathy and love from an amazing community.
I am so proud to call you people my friends.
Leah and Bailey, I love you guys. You’re awesome people. As are the rest of you.
I love my people.
people i would eat tacos with:
(I’ve actually eaten meals with four of these people)